Betrayal of the TP occurs when one parent confides in the child about adult matters
(Baker,2021; Harman et al., 2019). In addition, Baker (2021) and Harman et al. (2019)
established that this behaviour is a common parental alienation strategy engaged in by
the AP. Some of the examples highlighted or identified in the employment of this tactic
is that some AP’s share inappropriate information regarding financial and lawful
matters with their offspring (Balmer et al., 2018). Shedding more light on the nature of
the confiding, Balmer et al. (2018) established that the information shared with the child
is both age inappropriate and that there was no point in the child knowing the
confidential information about the TP. Indeed, Balmer et al. (2018) claim that in the
process of confiding with the child, the AP would be portrayed as the victim of the TP
which would in turn make the children feel pity them and see the need to protect
themselves from the other parent while harboring anger towards the TP. Confiding in
the child reinforces the bond that exists between the offspring and the AP. This is so
because in most of the cases, the piece of information that is divulged portrays the TP in
a prejudiced way. Confiding in the child ultimately creates more distance between the
child and the TP (Harman et al., 2019). Moreover, this alienating behaviour could result
in role reversal as the child may see the need to protect or even support the alienating
parent.